{"formatVersion":"1.1","id":"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse","path":"/library/narcissistic-collapse","url":"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse","title":"Narcissistic Collapse","family":"Library detail","description":"Narcissistic collapse occurs when a person with narcissistic personality disorder has their self-esteem threatened or damaged, triggering a range of symptoms.","language":"en-US","access":{"audience":"public","indexable":true},"provenance":{"sourceUrl":"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse","wordpressId":"630","contentCompleteness":"complete","dateScope":"original-source"},"authors":[{"@type":"Person","@id":"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/naomi-carr#person","name":"Naomi Carr","url":"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/naomi-carr"}],"reviewer":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/morgan-blair#person","name":"Morgan Blair","url":"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/morgan-blair"},"dates":{"datePublished":"2023-10-06T09:04:43Z","dateModified":"2025-08-24T20:30:49Z","lastReviewed":"2023-10-06"},"content":{"html":"<nav aria-label=\"Breadcrumb\" class=\"breadcrumbs\"><ol><li><a href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/\">Home</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library\">Library</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/personality-disorders\">Personality Disorders</a></li><li><span aria-current=\"page\">Narcissistic Collapse</span></li></ol></nav><div class=\"article-page article-standard\" data-library-standard=\"\"><div class=\"article-main-grid\"><header class=\"article-heading\"><h1>Narcissistic Collapse</h1><p class=\"article-inline-credits\"><span class=\"credit-row\"><span>Written by <a class=\"article-credit-person\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/naomi-carr\">Naomi Carr</a></span><span>Medically reviewed by <a class=\"article-credit-person\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/morgan-blair\">Morgan Blair, M.A.</a></span></span></p><div class=\"article-dates\"><span>Published on <time datetime=\"2023-10-06T09:04:43Z\">October 6, 2023</time></span><span aria-hidden=\"true\"> · </span><span>Updated on <time datetime=\"2025-08-24T20:30:49Z\">August 24, 2025</time></span></div></header><div class=\"article-jumpbar\"></div><div class=\"article-layout\"><div class=\"article-reading\"><article class=\"prose\" id=\"article-content\"><div class=\"article-intro\" data-source-field=\"hero\"><p>Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a mental health condition that impacts a person’s mood, behavior, and relationships. People with NPD can experience what is known as narcissistic collapse when their self-esteem is threatened or damaged. This can cause several reactions, including withdrawal, emotional outbursts, and aggression.</p></div><figure class=\"article-feature\"><img alt=\"A man sits thoughtfully at a kitchen table.\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"675\" loading=\"eager\" src=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/assets/optimized/f65d5f245af8278ca4c4d3d7.webp\" width=\"1200\" srcset=\"/assets/responsive/b4d30d1e48bf19e39a9a3fa0.webp 800w, /assets/optimized/f65d5f245af8278ca4c4d3d7.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 1200px\"></figure><section aria-labelledby=\"key-takeaways\" class=\"article-takeaways\"><h2 id=\"key-takeaways\">Key takeaways</h2><ul><li>Narcissistic collapse describes an intense response to a perceived threat to self-esteem in narcissistic personality disorder.</li><li>Reactions can include withdrawal, distress, anger, or outward emotional outbursts and vary between people.</li><li>Professional support may address underlying patterns, while loved ones may need clear boundaries and attention to their own well-being.</li></ul></section><span id=\"what-is-narcissistic-collapse-narcissistic-collapse-is-a-term-used-to-describe-an-emotional-response-experienced-by-people-with\" class=\"section-anchor-alias\" data-section-alias=\"what-is-narcissistic-collapse\" aria-hidden=\"true\"></span><h2 id=\"what-is-narcissistic-collapse\">What is narcissistic collapse?</h2><p>\nNarcissistic collapse is a term used to describe an emotional response experienced by people with <a class=\"article-inline-link\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-personality-disorder\">narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)</a>. People with NPD rely heavily on the admiration and approval of others for their self-esteem. When this is lacking, or they are publicly criticized, it can damage their ego, leading to a narcissistic collapse⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-mortification-shame-fear\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 1: Vaknin, S. (2020). Narcissistic Mortification, Shame, and Fear. SunText Review of Neuroscience &amp; Psychology, 1(1), 106. suntextreviews.org.\" data-reference-number=\"1\">[1]</a></sup>.\n</p><p>Studies suggest that there are two types of NPD. Overt or grandiose NPD and covert or vulnerable NPD. People with overt NPD tend to have a more substantial belief in their superiority and self-worth, so they might be less likely to experience narcissistic collapse than people with covert NPD, who are more likely to have a fragile ego and low self-esteem⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#bright-dark-blue-face-narcissism-spectrum-narcissism-relations-metatraits\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 2: Rogoza, R., Żemojtel-Piotrowska, M., Kwiatkowska, M.M., &amp; Kwiatkowska, K. (2018). The Bright, the Dark, and the Blue Face of Narcissism: The Spectrum of Narcissism in Its Relations to the Metatraits of Personality, Self-Esteem, and the Nomological Network of Shyness, Loneliness, and Empathy. Frontiers in Psychology, 9, 343. Frontiers. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"2\">[2]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-rage-revisited\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 3: Krizan, Z., &amp; Johar, O. (2015). Narcissistic Rage Revisited. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 108(5), 784–801. American Psychological Association.\" data-reference-number=\"3\">[3]</a></sup>.</p><p>\nNarcissistic collapse can happen for various reasons and may appear differently from person to person. The signs and duration of a narcissistic collapse can vary depending on the type of NPD, the cause of the collapse, and the context in which it occurs⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-mortification-shame-fear\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 1: Vaknin, S. (2020). Narcissistic Mortification, Shame, and Fear. SunText Review of Neuroscience &amp; Psychology, 1(1), 106. suntextreviews.org.\" data-reference-number=\"1\">[1]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-personality-disorder-diagnostic-clinical-challenges\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 4: Caligor, E., Levy, K.N., &amp; Yeomans, F.E. (2015). Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Diagnostic and Clinical Challenges. The American Journal of Psychiatry, 172(5), 415-422. PsychiatryOnline.\" data-reference-number=\"4\">[4]</a></sup>.\n</p><section aria-label=\"Subject matter expert\" class=\"article-expert article-expert-inline\" data-expert-kind=\"related\" data-expert-layout=\"standard\"><p class=\"article-bio-role\">Subject matter expert</p><div class=\"article-expert-identity\"><a href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/simone-hoermann\" class=\"card-identity-photo\" aria-label=\"Simone Hoermann  Ph.D.\"><img alt=\"\" height=\"64\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/assets/optimized/5ffe249a46895c9a14f6074b.jpg\" width=\"64\" decoding=\"async\"></a><h2><a href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/simone-hoermann\">Simone Hoermann <span class=\"expert-credentials\">Ph.D.</span></a></h2></div><p class=\"article-expert-focus\">Personality disorders, anxiety, and depression</p><a href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/people/simone-hoermann\" class=\"quiet-button\">View profile</a></section><span id=\"signs-of-narcissistic-collapse-signs-of-narcissistic-collapse-can-vary-depending-on-the-person-and-the\" class=\"section-anchor-alias\" data-section-alias=\"signs-of-narcissistic-collapse\" aria-hidden=\"true\"></span><h2 id=\"signs-of-narcissistic-collapse\">Signs of narcissistic collapse</h2><p>\nSigns of narcissistic collapse can vary depending on the person and the situation. Some people may display more outward expressions of collapse, while others are more inward and withdrawn. People with covert NPD may show more inward or passive-aggressive signs, while people with overt NPD may show more outwardly expressive signs⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-mortification-shame-fear\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 1: Vaknin, S. (2020). Narcissistic Mortification, Shame, and Fear. SunText Review of Neuroscience &amp; Psychology, 1(1), 106. suntextreviews.org.\" data-reference-number=\"1\">[1]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-rage-revisited\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 3: Krizan, Z., &amp; Johar, O. (2015). Narcissistic Rage Revisited. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 108(5), 784–801. American Psychological Association.\" data-reference-number=\"3\">[3]</a></sup>.\nSigns of narcissistic collapse can include:\n</p><ul>\n<li>Hostility and criticism toward others</li>\n<li>Narcissistic rage, often involving an outburst of anger and aggression</li>\n<li>Irritability and agitation</li>\n<li>Accusing others to displace blame and responsibility</li>\n<li>Gaslighting others to distort or distract from reality</li>\n<li>Passive-aggressive behaviors, such as purposefully ignoring others or making sarcastic and hurtful remarks</li>\n<li>Vindictive behaviors, such as telling lies or negative ideas about others to damage their reputation</li>\n<li>Impulsive and reckless behaviors, such as gambling, excessive drug or alcohol use, or driving under the influence</li>\n<li>Extreme stress and anxiety</li>\n<li>Depression</li>\n<li>Social withdrawal</li>\n<li>Self-harm and suicide attempts</li>\n</ul><span id=\"what-causes-narcissistic-collapse-people-with-npd-can-experience-varying-levels-of-self-esteem-which-may-fluctuate-studies-suggest-that-despite-outward-expressions-of-arrogance-and-superiority-people-with-npd-have-a-deeply\" class=\"section-anchor-alias\" data-section-alias=\"what-causes-narcissistic-collapse\" aria-hidden=\"true\"></span><h2 id=\"what-causes-narcissistic-collapse\">What causes narcissistic collapse?</h2><p>People with NPD may rely heavily on admiration to regulate self-esteem and can be sensitive to criticism or failure. Outward confidence does not necessarily reflect stable self-worth⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-personality-disorder-diagnostic-clinical-challenges\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 4: Caligor, E., Levy, K.N., &amp; Yeomans, F.E. (2015). Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Diagnostic and Clinical Challenges. The American Journal of Psychiatry, 172(5), 415-422. PsychiatryOnline.\" data-reference-number=\"4\">[4]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissism-lens-performative-self-elevation\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 5: Zimmerman, M. (2026). Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Merck Manual Professional Edition. Merck Manual. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"5\">[5]</a></sup>.</p><p>Typically, narcissistic traits develop either following abuse, as a defense mechanism and way of reducing feelings of worthlessness, or after receiving excessive praise as a child, thus creating an inflated ego. In both cases, the individual’s belief in their superiority relies heavily on the admiration and validation of others, known as ‘narcissistic supply’⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-mortification-shame-fear\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 1: Vaknin, S. (2020). Narcissistic Mortification, Shame, and Fear. SunText Review of Neuroscience &amp; Psychology, 1(1), 106. suntextreviews.org.\" data-reference-number=\"1\">[1]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#current-understanding-narcissism-narcissistic-personality-disorder\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 6: Yakeley, J. (2018). Current Understanding of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. BJPsych Advances, 24(5), 305-315. Cambridge University Press. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"6\">[6]</a></sup>.</p><p>\nIf this supply is diminished for any reason, the person with NPD experiences a decrease in their self-worth and self-esteem, which can lead to narcissistic collapse. This may occur due to:\n</p><ul>\n<li>Being exposed for lying or manipulating</li>\n<li>Being criticized for their work or underachieving</li>\n<li>Not receiving the treatment or reaction that they believe they deserve</li>\n<li>Witnessing others receiving the special treatment or praise they believe they deserve</li>\n</ul><p>\nWhen this occurs, the ego and confidence of the person with NPD are damaged, and their self-esteem cannot be upheld, causing them to recognize or be reminded of their flaws and inadequacies. </p>\n<p>As such, they experience emotions such as anxiety or shame, causing a ‘collapse’ in their narcissistic traits as they try to recover their control and power⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-rage-revisited\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 3: Krizan, Z., &amp; Johar, O. (2015). Narcissistic Rage Revisited. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 108(5), 784–801. American Psychological Association.\" data-reference-number=\"3\">[3]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#speaking-psychology-recognizing-narcissist-ramani-durvasula-phd\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 7: American Psychological Association. (2016). Speaking of Psychology: Recognizing a Narcissist, with Ramani Durvasula, PhD. APA. American Psychological Association. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"7\">[7]</a></sup>.\nThis reaction will vary depending on the individual. It may cause an outward and aggressive response to someone they believe has damaged their self-esteem. </p><p>Alternatively, it might result in withdrawal and impaired functioning. In both instances, the individual will likely experience self-criticism and a fear of failure or inferiority⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#current-understanding-narcissism-narcissistic-personality-disorder\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 6: Yakeley, J. (2018). Current Understanding of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. BJPsych Advances, 24(5), 305-315. Cambridge University Press. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"6\">[6]</a></sup>.\n</p><span id=\"how-long-does-narcissistic-collapse-last-narcissistic-collapse-can-last-for-any-length-of-time-and-will-vary-from-person-to-person-for-some-it-may-last-just-a-few-hours-while-for-others-it-may-last-several-months-or-even-years-how-the-individual-responds-to-the-narcissistic-collapse-will-influence-how-quickly-they-recover\" class=\"section-anchor-alias\" data-section-alias=\"how-long-does-narcissistic-collapse-last\" aria-hidden=\"true\"></span><h2 id=\"how-long-does-narcissistic-collapse-last\">How long does narcissistic collapse last?</h2><p>\nNarcissistic collapse can last for any length of time and will vary from person to person. For some, it may last just a few hours, while for others, it may last several months or even years. How the individual responds to the narcissistic collapse will influence how quickly they recover.\n</p><p>For example, emotional outbursts, manipulation tactics, or severing ties with a person can all be used to recover from collapse as techniques to regain power, control, and superiority⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#bright-dark-blue-face-narcissism-spectrum-narcissism-relations-metatraits\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 2: Rogoza, R., Żemojtel-Piotrowska, M., Kwiatkowska, M.M., &amp; Kwiatkowska, K. (2018). The Bright, the Dark, and the Blue Face of Narcissism: The Spectrum of Narcissism in Its Relations to the Metatraits of Personality, Self-Esteem, and the Nomological Network of Shyness, Loneliness, and Empathy. Frontiers in Psychology, 9, 343. Frontiers. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"2\">[2]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-personality-disorder-diagnostic-clinical-challenges\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 4: Caligor, E., Levy, K.N., &amp; Yeomans, F.E. (2015). Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Diagnostic and Clinical Challenges. The American Journal of Psychiatry, 172(5), 415-422. PsychiatryOnline.\" data-reference-number=\"4\">[4]</a></sup>.</p><p>Often, a person with NPD will lack self-awareness, so they cannot self-reflect and recognize their role in the situation. They will likely blame others for their collapse, causing them to lash out and deflect responsibility⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-rage-revisited\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 3: Krizan, Z., &amp; Johar, O. (2015). Narcissistic Rage Revisited. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 108(5), 784–801. American Psychological Association.\" data-reference-number=\"3\">[3]</a></sup>.</p><p>\nThis helps them release the negative emotions they experienced during their collapse and recover their perceived control and self-esteem. Once this is achieved, the narcissistic collapse will end, and their previous behavior and presentation will return⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#current-understanding-narcissism-narcissistic-personality-disorder\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 6: Yakeley, J. (2018). Current Understanding of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. BJPsych Advances, 24(5), 305-315. Cambridge University Press. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"6\">[6]</a></sup>.\n</p><span id=\"how-to-deal-with-collapsed-narcissists-coping-with-the-emotions-and-behaviors-of-someone-with-npd-experiencing-narcissistic-collapse-can-be-challenging-harmful-and-draining-the-following-may-help-manage-these-situations\" class=\"section-anchor-alias\" data-section-alias=\"how-to-deal-with-collapsed-narcissists\" aria-hidden=\"true\"></span><h2 id=\"how-to-deal-with-collapsed-narcissists\">How to deal with collapsed narcissists</h2><p>\nCoping with the emotions and behaviors of someone with NPD experiencing narcissistic collapse can be challenging, harmful, and draining. The following may help manage these situations⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#speaking-psychology-recognizing-narcissist-ramani-durvasula-phd\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 7: American Psychological Association. (2016). Speaking of Psychology: Recognizing a Narcissist, with Ramani Durvasula, PhD. APA. American Psychological Association. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"7\">[7]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissism-abuse\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 8: National Domestic Violence Hotline. (n.d.). Narcissism and Abuse. The Hotline. National Domestic Violence Hotline. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"8\">[8]</a></sup>:\n</p><ul>\n<li><strong>Learn the signs: </strong>Gaining a better understanding of NPD and the signs of narcissistic collapse can help you recognize when it is happening and improve your ability to cope.</li>\n<li><strong>Set boundaries: </strong>If you regularly engage with someone with NPD, you may find it helpful to set boundaries with them. This might include specifying what types of communication and behavior you will and won’t engage with and how you will decline to engage when necessary. This can help protect you from harmful situations and help the person with NPD know what to expect.</li>\n<li><strong>Leave them to their emotions: </strong>It is important to remember that their emotions and reactions are not your responsibility or fault, even if they try to tell you that they are. You don’t need to fix the situation or make them feel better.</li>\n<li><strong>End communication: </strong>If necessary or appropriate, you can end all contact with this person, severing the relationship entirely. This may be necessary if you are regularly experiencing emotional or physical abuse. Helplines and resources are available that can assist you with this.</li>\n<li><strong>Seek professional help: </strong>Dealing with someone with NPD can cause distress and be physically and emotionally exhausting. You may find it helpful to speak with a therapist or other professional, to find a safe and healthy way to discuss and process your experiences. This can help you feel supported, protect your well-being, and get advice on how to cope with ongoing situations.</li>\n</ul><span id=\"when-to-seek-professional-help-although-there-is-limited-evidence-for-treatments-of-npd-various-professional-interventions-are-available-that-can-help-manage-symptoms-including-therapy-and-medications\" class=\"section-anchor-alias\" data-section-alias=\"when-to-seek-professional-help\" aria-hidden=\"true\"></span><h2 id=\"when-to-seek-professional-help\">When to seek professional help</h2><p>\nAlthough there is limited evidence for treatments of NPD, various professional interventions are available that can help manage symptoms, including therapy and medications.\n</p><h3 id=\"therapy-there-are-several-potential-options-for-people-with-npd-who-wish-to-engage-in-talk-therapy-including\">Therapy</h3><p>\nThere are several potential options for people with NPD who wish to engage in talk therapy, including⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-personality-disorder-diagnostic-clinical-challenges\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 4: Caligor, E., Levy, K.N., &amp; Yeomans, F.E. (2015). Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Diagnostic and Clinical Challenges. The American Journal of Psychiatry, 172(5), 415-422. PsychiatryOnline.\" data-reference-number=\"4\">[4]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#current-understanding-narcissism-narcissistic-personality-disorder\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 6: Yakeley, J. (2018). Current Understanding of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. BJPsych Advances, 24(5), 305-315. Cambridge University Press. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"6\">[6]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-personality-disorder\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 9: Mitra, P., &amp; Fluyau, D. (2023). Narcissistic Personality Disorder. In: StatPearls [Internet].Treasure Island, FL: StatPearls Publishing. National Library of Medicine. Accessed May 31 2025.\" data-reference-number=\"9\">[9]</a></sup>:\n</p><ul>\n<li><a class=\"article-inline-link\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/cognitive-behavioral-therapy\">Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)</a></li>\n<li>Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)</li>\n<li><a class=\"article-inline-link\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/psychodynamic-theories\">Psychodynamic therapy</a></li>\n<li>Interpersonal therapy (IPT)</li>\n<li>Schema-focused therapy</li>\n<li>Mentalization-based therapy (MBT)</li>\n<li>Transference-focused therapy</li>\n</ul><h3 id=\"medications-although-the-fda-has-not-approved-any-medications-to-treat-npd-medications-are-sometimes-prescribed-to-help-manage-co-existing-conditions-or-symptoms-such-as-depression-anxiety-agitation-and-aggression-medicinal-treatments-that-may-be-helpful-for-someone-with-npd-can-include\">Medications</h3><p>\nAlthough the FDA has not approved any medications to treat NPD, medications are sometimes prescribed to help manage co-existing conditions or symptoms, such as depression, anxiety, agitation, and aggression. Medicinal treatments that may be helpful for someone with NPD can include⁠<sup class=\"citation-group\"><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#current-understanding-narcissism-narcissistic-personality-disorder\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 6: Yakeley, J. (2018). Current Understanding of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. BJPsych Advances, 24(5), 305-315. Cambridge University Press. Accessed October 10 2026.\" data-reference-number=\"6\">[6]</a><a class=\"article-citation\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/narcissistic-collapse#narcissistic-personality-disorder\" data-reference-link=\"\" aria-label=\"Reference 9: Mitra, P., &amp; Fluyau, D. (2023). Narcissistic Personality Disorder. In: StatPearls [Internet].Treasure Island, FL: StatPearls Publishing. National Library of Medicine. Accessed May 31 2025.\" data-reference-number=\"9\">[9]</a></sup>:\n</p><ul>\n<li><a class=\"article-inline-link\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/antidepressants\">Antidepressants</a></li>\n<li><a class=\"article-inline-link\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/benzodiazepines\">Benzodiazepines</a></li>\n<li><a class=\"article-inline-link\" href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/library/antipsychotics\">Antipsychotics</a></li>\n<li>Anticonvulsants</li>\n</ul><aside class=\"article-support\" data-article-therapist=\"narcissistic-collapse\" aria-label=\"Find support that fits you\"><div><h2>Find support that fits you</h2><p>Explore people and care options near you.</p></div><a href=\"https://www.mentalhealth.com/therapists?specialty=Narcissistic+Personality+Disorder\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Find care</a></aside></article><div class=\"article-endmatter\"><section class=\"article-sources\" data-reference-list=\"\" data-reference-style=\"author-date-title-source\" data-source-references=\"\" id=\"references\"><h2 id=\"references-2\">References</h2><ol><li id=\"narcissistic-mortification-shame-fear\" value=\"1\" data-reference-number=\"1\" data-reference-format=\"393\">Vaknin, S. 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Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a mental health condition that impacts a person’s mood, behavior, and relationships. People with NPD can experience what is known as narcissistic collapse when their self-esteem is threatened or damaged. This can cause several reactions, including withdrawal, emotional outbursts, and aggression. Key takeaways Narcissistic collapse describes an intense response to a perceived threat to self-esteem in narcissistic personality disorder. Reactions can include withdrawal, distress, anger, or outward emotional outbursts and vary between people. Professional support may address underlying patterns, while loved ones may need clear boundaries and attention to their own well-being. What is narcissistic collapse? Narcissistic collapse is a term used to describe an emotional response experienced by people with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). People with NPD rely heavily on the admiration and approval of others for their self-esteem. When this is lacking, or they are publicly criticized, it can damage their ego, leading to a narcissistic collapse⁠[1]. Studies suggest that there are two types of NPD. Overt or grandiose NPD and covert or vulnerable NPD. People with overt NPD tend to have a more substantial belief in their superiority and self-worth, so they might be less likely to experience narcissistic collapse than people with covert NPD, who are more likely to have a fragile ego and low self-esteem⁠[2][3]. Narcissistic collapse can happen for various reasons and may appear differently from person to person. The signs and duration of a narcissistic collapse can vary depending on the type of NPD, the cause of the collapse, and the context in which it occurs⁠[1][4]. Subject matter expert Simone Hoermann Ph.D. Personality disorders, anxiety, and depression View profile Signs of narcissistic collapse Signs of narcissistic collapse can vary depending on the person and the situation. Some people may display more outward expressions of collapse, while others are more inward and withdrawn. People with covert NPD may show more inward or passive-aggressive signs, while people with overt NPD may show more outwardly expressive signs⁠[1][3]. Signs of narcissistic collapse can include: Hostility and criticism toward others Narcissistic rage, often involving an outburst of anger and aggression Irritability and agitation Accusing others to displace blame and responsibility Gaslighting others to distort or distract from reality Passive-aggressive behaviors, such as purposefully ignoring others or making sarcastic and hurtful remarks Vindictive behaviors, such as telling lies or negative ideas about others to damage their reputation Impulsive and reckless behaviors, such as gambling, excessive drug or alcohol use, or driving under the influence Extreme stress and anxiety Depression Social withdrawal Self-harm and suicide attempts What causes narcissistic collapse? People with NPD may rely heavily on admiration to regulate self-esteem and can be sensitive to criticism or failure. Outward confidence does not necessarily reflect stable self-worth⁠[4][5]. Typically, narcissistic traits develop either following abuse, as a defense mechanism and way of reducing feelings of worthlessness, or after receiving excessive praise as a child, thus creating an inflated ego. In both cases, the individual’s belief in their superiority relies heavily on the admiration and validation of others, known as ‘narcissistic supply’⁠[1][6]. If this supply is diminished for any reason, the person with NPD experiences a decrease in their self-worth and self-esteem, which can lead to narcissistic collapse. This may occur due to: Being exposed for lying or manipulating Being criticized for their work or underachieving Not receiving the treatment or reaction that they believe they deserve Witnessing others receiving the special treatment or praise they believe they deserve When this occurs, the ego and confidence of the person with NPD are damaged, and their self-esteem cannot be upheld, causing them to recognize or be reminded of their flaws and inadequacies. As such, they experience emotions such as anxiety or shame, causing a ‘collapse’ in their narcissistic traits as they try to recover their control and power⁠[3][7]. This reaction will vary depending on the individual. It may cause an outward and aggressive response to someone they believe has damaged their self-esteem. Alternatively, it might result in withdrawal and impaired functioning. In both instances, the individual will likely experience self-criticism and a fear of failure or inferiority⁠[6]. How long does narcissistic collapse last? Narcissistic collapse can last for any length of time and will vary from person to person. For some, it may last just a few hours, while for others, it may last several months or even years. How the individual responds to the narcissistic collapse will influence how quickly they recover. For example, emotional outbursts, manipulation tactics, or severing ties with a person can all be used to recover from collapse as techniques to regain power, control, and superiority⁠[2][4]. Often, a person with NPD will lack self-awareness, so they cannot self-reflect and recognize their role in the situation. They will likely blame others for their collapse, causing them to lash out and deflect responsibility⁠[3]. This helps them release the negative emotions they experienced during their collapse and recover their perceived control and self-esteem. Once this is achieved, the narcissistic collapse will end, and their previous behavior and presentation will return⁠[6]. How to deal with collapsed narcissists Coping with the emotions and behaviors of someone with NPD experiencing narcissistic collapse can be challenging, harmful, and draining. The following may help manage these situations⁠[7][8]: Learn the signs: Gaining a better understanding of NPD and the signs of narcissistic collapse can help you recognize when it is happening and improve your ability to cope. Set boundaries: If you regularly engage with someone with NPD, you may find it helpful to set boundaries with them. This might include specifying what types of communication and behavior you will and won’t engage with and how you will decline to engage when necessary. This can help protect you from harmful situations and help the person with NPD know what to expect. Leave them to their emotions: It is important to remember that their emotions and reactions are not your responsibility or fault, even if they try to tell you that they are. You don’t need to fix the situation or make them feel better. End communication: If necessary or appropriate, you can end all contact with this person, severing the relationship entirely. This may be necessary if you are regularly experiencing emotional or physical abuse. Helplines and resources are available that can assist you with this. Seek professional help: Dealing with someone with NPD can cause distress and be physically and emotionally exhausting. You may find it helpful to speak with a therapist or other professional, to find a safe and healthy way to discuss and process your experiences. This can help you feel supported, protect your well-being, and get advice on how to cope with ongoing situations. When to seek professional help Although there is limited evidence for treatments of NPD, various professional interventions are available that can help manage symptoms, including therapy and medications. Therapy There are several potential options for people with NPD who wish to engage in talk therapy, including⁠[4][6][9]: Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) Psychodynamic therapy Interpersonal therapy (IPT) Schema-focused therapy Mentalization-based therapy (MBT) Transference-focused therapy Medications Although the FDA has not approved any medications to treat NPD, medications are sometimes prescribed to help manage co-existing conditions or symptoms, such as depression, anxiety, agitation, and aggression. Medicinal treatments that may be helpful for someone with NPD can include⁠[6][9]: Antidepressants Benzodiazepines Antipsychotics Anticonvulsants Find support that fits you Explore people and care options near you. Find care References Vaknin, S. (2020). Narcissistic Mortification, Shame, and Fear. SunText Review of Neuroscience & Psychology, 1(1), 106. suntextreviews.org. Rogoza, R., Żemojtel-Piotrowska, M., Kwiatkowska, M.M., & Kwiatkowska, K. (2018). The Bright, the Dark, and the Blue Face of Narcissism: The Spectrum of Narcissism in Its Relations to the Metatraits of Personality, Self-Esteem, and the Nomological Network of Shyness, Loneliness, and Empathy. Frontiers in Psychology, 9, 343. Frontiers. Accessed October 10 2026. Krizan, Z., & Johar, O. (2015). Narcissistic Rage Revisited. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 108(5), 784–801. American Psychological Association. Caligor, E., Levy, K.N., & Yeomans, F.E. (2015). Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Diagnostic and Clinical Challenges. The American Journal of Psychiatry, 172(5), 415-422. PsychiatryOnline. Zimmerman, M. (2026). Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Merck Manual Professional Edition. Merck Manual. Accessed October 10 2026. Yakeley, J. (2018). Current Understanding of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. BJPsych Advances, 24(5), 305-315. Cambridge University Press. Accessed October 10 2026. American Psychological Association. (2016). Speaking of Psychology: Recognizing a Narcissist, with Ramani Durvasula, PhD. APA. American Psychological Association. Accessed October 10 2026. National Domestic Violence Hotline. (n.d.). Narcissism and Abuse. The Hotline. National Domestic Violence Hotline. Accessed October 10 2026. Mitra, P., & Fluyau, D. (2023). Narcissistic Personality Disorder. In: StatPearls [Internet].Treasure Island, FL: StatPearls Publishing. National Library of Medicine. Accessed May 31 2025. Medical Content The Clinical Affairs Team at MentalHealth.com is a dedicated group of medical professionals with diverse and extensive clinical experience. They actively contribute to the development of content, products, and services, and meticulously review all medical material before publication to ensure accuracy and alignment with current research and conversations in mental health. For more information, please visit the Editorial Policy. About MentalHealth.com MentalHealth.com helps people understand themselves, build healthier relationships, and access the right care. We bring together mental health education, diagnostics, and care management to support well-being throughout every phase of life. Author Naomi Carr Writer Naomi Carr is a writer with a background in English Literature from Oxford Brookes University. Published October 6, 2023 Updated August 24, 2025 Medical Reviewer Morgan Blair, M.A. MA, LPCC Morgan Blair is a licensed therapist, writer and medical reviewer, holding a master’s degree in clinical mental health counseling from Northwestern University. Reviewed October 6, 2023 Related community Personality Disorders Explore perspectives on personality disorders, everyday experiences, and relationships. Table of contentsChoose a section What is narcissistic collapse? Signs of narcissistic collapse What causes narcissistic collapse? How long does narcissistic collapse last? 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