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Will Joel Friedman, Ph.D.

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Will Joel Friedman, Ph.D., is a California psychologist specializing in presence-centered therapy for individuals, couples, families and adolescents.

Will Joel Friedman, Ph.D., is a psychologist licensed in California since 1987 (License No. PSY 10092). He has worked with adults, couples, families, adolescents and older children since 1976. His practice emphasizes presence-centered therapy, focusing on helping clients move beyond unworkable patterns, address core emotional challenges and develop practical tools to thrive.

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Friedman has completed a book with the working title Awakening to Sanity: Being Sane in an Insane World—A Traveler’s Guide and has published excerpts on his website. He also serves on the editorial board of Paradoxica: Journal of Nondual Psychology.

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References

  1. Presence-centered Psychotherapy - Freeing the Ego to Live Free. (n.d.). Psyris. psyris.com. Accessed October 10 2026.
  2. Complete Website Introduction. (n.d.). YouTube. YouTube.

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