Last reviewed:
Jun 21st 2023
M.A., LPCC
Overcoming bulimia nervosa can take time and isn’t easy, but it is possible. Recovery can mean different things to different people, and it may be that you never have a completely normal relationship with food and exercise. The goal might be to stop harmful behaviors, minimize the amount of time you spend thinking about food and exercise, and reach a point where bulimia has as small an effect on your quality of life as possible.
It is strongly suggested that anyone suffering from bulimia seek professional help. However, there are also things you can do to help yourself, as well.
One of the most powerful things you can do to start on the road to recovery is to open up about your illness to someone you trust.
Bulimia can be a secretive illness as binge eating and purging behaviors are often done in private [1]. Also, because people with bulimia don’t always lose significant amounts of body weight, it might not be obvious to friends and family that there is a problem.
Talking about mental disorders isn’t always easy, but it can help to lessen the shame and stigma you might be feeling. Talking with someone will help make sure you have a support network for your recovery. Here are some tips on opening up:[2]
Peer support groups bring together people with similar experiences to support each other, which can be effective for people experiencing mental health disorders.[3] Finding people who know what you are going through may help you on your road to recovery. Sharing advice about what has helped along the way or just having a safe space to vent frustration and share success away from friends and family can be a lifeline for many.
Bulimia follows a binge-purge pattern, where episodes of binge eating are followed by purging behaviors, such as vomiting or excessive exercise. Between binges, people with bulimia usually follow a low-calorie diet [1]. Restricting food intake in this way can make bingeing more likely to happen, so adopting a healthier, less strict approach to eating can help to break the binge-purge cycle.
Making a healthy plan for what you will eat during the day can help you manage your eating and prevent you from becoming hungry, which in turn can lessen urge to binge eat.[4]
Many things can trigger episodes of binge eating and triggers vary from person to person. Triggers can include:[5]
Understanding your triggers can help you spot them and deal with them more effectively. For example, making sure you plan your meals so you don’t become hungry might help break the bing/purge cycle. You might also decide to change your routine for later in the day and do something that will lessen the opportunity to binge. If your triggers are emotional, try finding other ways to soothe and manage difficult feelings, such as mindfulness or breathing exercises.
Improving your wellbeing can give you a solid foundation for recovery. Binge eating often arises from a need to cope with difficult emotions [1]. People might binge as a way to relieve feelings of sadness or anxiety. Finding other ways to manage those emotions, such as mindfulness and breathing exercises, can help prevent them from triggering a bingeing episode.
Having bulimia may have created daily or weekly routines that revolve around avoiding food, bingeing, purging, and exercising. For example, if you have been prone to overexercising this will have taken up a significant amount of time that you need to find a new way to occupy.
Shaking up your routine can help distract you from your usual behaviors and spend your time in new ways. Take up a new hobby. Perhaps you can try something creative that is unrelated to food or your body to keep your brain occupied.[6]
Most celebrations, from national holidays like Thanksgiving to our own individual birthdays, revolve around food. This make celebrations difficult to navigate if you are recovering from an eating disorder. You can take steps to cope better with these situations.
Being open about how you are feeling with someone who will be at a meal or event can help you feel less alone. Think ahead to the event and make a list of things you can do to make it easier, such as stepping out for little breaks of fresh air. If it all feels too much for your early stages of recovery, consider making alternative plans for a while.[6]
Not everyone with bulimia will put on weight as part of recovery, but if you do it can be difficult to cope with. Taking a few practical steps, such as getting rid of clothes that no longer fit and replacing them with outfits that feel comfortable can help.
Also, avoid weighing yourself, spending too long looking in the mirror, or looking at triggering content online or in magazines.
Recovery is hard. If you relapse, try to be kind to yourself. Reflect on what led to the relapse and use what you learn to help you in future.
Most people will need help to recover from bulimia.[9] In addition to support for bulimia itself, help can be sought for underlying mental disorders, such as depression, bipolar disorder, or an anxiety disorder, which are common with bulimia.[1]
The main treatment option for bulimia is therapy. Suitable therapies include:[7][8]
There is no medication specifically for eating disorders, but you may be prescribed medication to treat an underlying or associated mental health condition.
There are several complications associated with bulimia that can occur if it is not treated. These include injuries from overexercising, tiredness, dehydration, and problems with menstruation. The body can recover once harmful behaviors have stopped. Other problems such as osteoporosis, arthritis, and heart problems may be permanent but following a healthy lifestyle can lessen long-term effects. [1][8]
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